Friday, July 10, 2009

An important note to my blog readers...

Arguments with other readers will not be tolerated within my blog. If you have a problem with someone's comments please do not bring that drama here. I created this blog as an outlet for myself and a way to share my feelings and experiences with those who care.

I am just trying deal with my husband's death the best way that I can. Everyone grieves differently, and we all need to respect that. There are many people who loved my Michael and we are all dealing with his tragic death in our own way and in our own time.

Some of us have anger and resentment that he was taken too soon and we let that manifest in negative ways. Feelings will be hurt, misunderstandings will take place, and a shit storm will follow.

Some of us while we miss him with our whole beings, are unable to feel anger because of our spiritual/religious convictions. We are able to find comfort in the fact that he is in a much better place than this world. We find hope in knowing that one day we will be reunited again.

Ultimately, we all loved Michael. And although we cannot see eye to eye it is important to remember that we are all hurting. Much love to everyone who grieves Mike. Though we are walking down separate paths our destination remains the same.

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.

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